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Sun 8 Feb, 2004 12:29 pm
I'd prefer all, but if I had to choose....I'd pick body.
Honesty & reliability- If the person does not have those, nothing else matters!
I'm with Phoenix on this one. All the other qualities in a person are nothing, if you don't have honesty.
Loyalty, above all.
Then honesty, intelligence, sense of humor and all those other good things...
In a serious long-term relationship I'd say honesty, respect, and empathy are of pretty much equal importance.
I agree, honesty is important. But I have to put intelligence in there too. If the guy is honest but a total dumb ass, I don't think I'd be interested. Loyalty is up there too. Hygiene. That's a definite too.
I couldn't pick only one.
I agree Caprice. I can't narrow it down to one either.
Caprice- Of course intelligence is vital. The point that I was making was that even if a guy were rich, gorgeous, and a rocket scientist, it would mean nothing to me if he were not honest and reliable.
Phoenix32890 wrote:Caprice- Of course intelligence is vital. The point that I was making was that even if a guy were rich, gorgeous, and a rocket scientist, it would mean nothing to me if he were not honest and reliable.
It wasn't said, so I didn't know. Mind-reading is not amongst my abilities.
Sparing is very important. Honesty is important but I don't have to have it in a relationship. It isn't important to me because people can try but I know when someone is lying--when it is important such as a relationship. Conceded no. Just right for a good amount of the time, which is why Honesty just rank up there.
I seriously considered honesty and intelligence, but ultimately I decided to go with the flat head.
When I say sparing, I mean intellectual sparing. Debating. Arguing for fun. Words being exchanged at a high rate without pausing for long periods of time. Anything less wouldn't be attractive.
I like to participate in CotL's threads so I can check out her tatas in her avatar.
blue, I think you mean "sparring."
kickycan wrote:blue, I think you mean "sparring."
I'm going to have to concur.
cjhsa, I agree. I like those tatas. I think tatas are also important in a relationship.
honesty is important - but we all know that, and I think that for the majority of people, it's in the top 3 things of importance (including me)...after that I'll go for intelligence. I like being in a relationship w/ something that I can learn stuff from and we can learn things together. Someone I can debate with and it stay on a civil level and not escalate into arguing...
I've discovered that body is not as important to me as it used to be.
I voted for personality since, for me, that encompasses the qualities that makeup that person such as their honesty, their humor, their appreciation of things, their attitudes, their ability to share a bond with me, etc.
It's nice to have a pretty shell to go along with it but someone without a personality is just an empty shell to me.
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