@#$% I just spent 30 minutes penning a response, and it is LOST. @#%$!
I'll try to respond simply, but don't have time to rewrite everything I just lost...
Blatham,
1) I am not arguing against same-gender unions, I am pointing out what I see as the weakness of your arguments. I happen to believe there are good arguments for same-gender unions (I have quite a few of my own), I just don't find you to be making them, because you either prefer to demonize those who disagree with you, or genuinely cannot see them as thinking people with a different point of view.
2) I did not equate same-gender unions with murder, I merely pointed out that we have civil laws that stem from (or mirror) religious dogma; the law against murder being one such. I did so to illustrate the illogic of suggesting that we need not consider notions based in religious dogma.
3) You'll have to find someone else to argue that children are harmed when raised by homosexuals. That's not an argument I'm making. I merely point out that it is an argument that others are making. Take it up with them. :wink:
4) I have offered no rationale for the curtailment of anyone's rights. I have mentioned the rationale of some of those who disagree with me on this issue, and pointed out that I don't think they fit in the box you would put them in.
5) Once again, suggesting that one thing is analogous to another is not the same thing as suggesting they are qualitatively equal. We deny lots of groups and individuals lots of "rights". Simply writing that someone wants to deny someone else "rights" is meaningless and simplistic. Society denies me the "right" to take anything I want from anyone at any time I choose. Does that mean society is wrong, or can you acknowledge that as members of a society we all accept something less than absolute liberty? It's the price of admission.
Try arguing why it is wrong to deny these specific people this specific right. (Which happens to be my position.) That's where you'll find a decent argument, not by simply complaining that those who disagree with you want to take away someone's rights. Of course they do, but that in-and-of itself doesn't tell us anything useful or meaningful. We are taking away people's rights when we pass laws against carrying guns within 100 yards of a school. (I suspect you are fairly comfortable with that curtailment of rights.) Only when we discuss the specific right or rights in question and why this group should or should not have it do we come at this in any meaningful way.
6) Once again,
I am NOT arguing against same-gender unions. I believe that if a state is going sanction a domestic contract between any adults, it should do so for all adults (at least if that state's constitution requires it to treat all citizens equally). As such, I'm unsure why you expect me to make an argument against same-gender unions.