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Is he interested or just nice?

 
 
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Reply Sat 7 Apr, 2012 07:54 am
Hi all,

I've known this guy for about 3 years. We hadn't seen each other in over a year and I needed some advice about work. He suggested we go for a drink to chat and catch up. It took us a couple of weeks to meet because he's very busy with his job but when we did meet:
He came to me, which is about an hour away from where he works, and paid for drinks.
He was very attentive, asked why I looked down and tried to cheer me up.
Knew what I was going to say before I said it.
Teased me about another guy and whether I was still in contact with this other guy.
Mentioned needing to head home because he was hungry - (was this a hint to continue onto dinner that I missed?!)
Told me it was good to see me.
He texted me afterwards to make sure I got home ok.

Since we met:
He always answers my messages, usually within a few hours, when I ask him something and he's very helpful and supportive.
Texts - he replies instantly.

I asked him to read something over for me and he's suggested that we meet again to discuss over drinks.

Is he nice and being a good friend or could he be interested? What can I do to know for sure without just coming straight out and telling him?
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Reply Sat 7 Apr, 2012 08:49 am
@9012,
From my perspective, based on lots of dating experience, he's interested.
You may have missed a clear hint when he hinted to continue onto dinner that previous time.

However, at your next meeting this should become crystal clear. If not, ask him directly about it. After all, you ARE interested in seeing what might develop with him...aren't you? That's not being aggressive (if that is an issue for you) - that is simply showing your interest. Unless you have some reason for your resistance or reticence? Are you wounded from a past relationship? Is he married or had a recent breakup? Are you just shy?
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