@helpplease 4379,
Why don't you just ask him why he deleted your emails?
There's plenty of good reasons I can think of that may (or may not) exist :
- the sheer volume of emails may be enormous
- he may see you so often that they don't have extra meaning beyond any other verbal conversation you have with him
- the nature of them may not require keeping
- he may reply to yours straight away (so he doesn't then need to keep them), but may not reply straight away to others
- other emails may have jokes in them, or funny cartoons etc, that are good for forwarding on
Btw - I don't hold with anyone that suggests 'you should close your eyes when he opens his email in front of you'...that's just ridiculously PC to my way of thinking.
As for him constantly lying to you etc - and your self esteem falling drastically (over a long period) with him - that is ALWAYS a good sign that YOU should leave him. Whatever happiness you have with him - your overall happiness diminishes at the same rate that your self esteem diminishes. You should never punish your life this way over a long period of time.
As a further note on that - Billrm also has it right that you should also start learning about what self-esteem is, and how you build it.