5
   

boyfriend watches porn right after we have sex

 
 
Reply Mon 26 Mar, 2012 09:41 am
worried that he has a problem or that he wants other women ...how can he watch pron 5 minutes after i leave his house then lie baout it
  • Topic Stats
  • Top Replies
  • Link to this Topic
Type: Question • Score: 5 • Views: 3,251 • Replies: 15
No top replies

 
CoastalRat
 
  1  
Reply Mon 26 Mar, 2012 11:26 am
@helpplease 4379,
How do you know he is watching porn 5 minutes after you leave the house if he is lying about it?

Anyway, I personally don't watch porn and think it is wrong to do so. That being the case, I'm probably not the best one to answer or give you advice. But I will anyway. Find someone who values you more than he values porn, or sex for that matter.

But again, that is my personal view based in large part on my personal morality. I think porn is harmful to a couple's relationship for a number of reasons. Others will soon be on here to tell you there is nothing wrong with what he is doing and you shouldn't worry about it. In the end, you have to decide what you are willing or not willing to put up with in the relationship.

PUNKEY
 
  1  
Reply Mon 26 Mar, 2012 11:27 am
Why?
He's bored.
He wants to keep the excitement of sex alive, even if you have gone.

BTW - If you are gone, how do you know he does this?)
helpplease 4379
 
  1  
Reply Mon 26 Mar, 2012 11:31 am
@PUNKEY,
does that mean he is bored with me? I have sex with him whenever he wnats and try all new things with him...should I not trust him as he seems to be looking for something else from a girl
BillRM
 
  1  
Reply Mon 26 Mar, 2012 12:04 pm
@helpplease 4379,
Men watching porn almost never had anything to do with how happy they are or are not with either their partners or their real life sex lives.

Most of us begin watching porn before we even had lost our virginity and never stop doing so.

For myself I could not be happier with my wife and our sex life together but I still look at porn from time to time.
firefly
 
  1  
Reply Mon 26 Mar, 2012 12:33 pm
@helpplease 4379,
Don't you talk to him? Ask him about it if it bothers you.
0 Replies
 
helpplease 4379
 
  1  
Reply Mon 26 Mar, 2012 01:34 pm
@BillRM,
i wish he only watched every now and again but its daily and i mean 5 minutes after i just had sex with him I cant talk to him as when i brought it up before he flipped out
BillRM
 
  1  
Reply Mon 26 Mar, 2012 01:48 pm
@helpplease 4379,
Hmm his flipping out about it is not a good sign as far as the total relationship go even those I still do not think that his looking at porn is any reflection on you or how he view you.

How is the communications between you two in other areas concerning either sexual or none sexual subjects?

No knowing you or him I can not put forward a theory of why he is not willing to talk to you about the matter.
helpplease 4379
 
  1  
Reply Mon 26 Mar, 2012 02:07 pm
@BillRM,
he has lied before on many issues and he knows how i feel about this and still watches i feel so less of a woman becaus ei this right now
BillRM
 
  0  
Reply Mon 26 Mar, 2012 02:30 pm
@helpplease 4379,
Well in my non expert opinion you had relationship problems that is unlikely to be about how he view you and your sex life together or even him viewing porn right after sex.

We all react in difference ways to having sex for myself it is like someone had given me a large shot of B12 and I had told my wife if she would just place a paint brush in my hands right afterward and tell me to paint the whole house it would not be a problem to do so.

You seems to have problems not over his viewing porn right after sex as that is likely just his way of dealing with the strong after effects of having sex, but instead in the overall relationship.

helpplease 4379
 
  1  
Reply Mon 26 Mar, 2012 02:37 pm
@BillRM,
thks for your reply as maybe you are correct I do have an issue with him and his always seeming to wnat another women
Sensual sex p4w
 
  0  
Reply Tue 10 Apr, 2012 09:18 am
@CoastalRat,
Sensual porn

I don't know! Guys sometimes just say things.
0 Replies
 
Johnwash51
 
  0  
Reply Thu 7 May, 2015 01:27 pm
@helpplease 4379,
Leave him if he always lie to you, otherwise you will have serious emotional issue later on.
PUNKEY
 
  1  
Reply Thu 7 May, 2015 01:52 pm
@helpplease 4379,
Think of them as cartoons.

It has nothing to do with you.

It's about him filling a space - out of boredom.

The real issue is he needs "this" kind of relaxation.
0 Replies
 
king nicolas
 
  1  
Reply Mon 18 May, 2015 07:46 am
@Johnwash51,
I totaly agree with you..
0 Replies
 
HesDeltanCaptain
 
  1  
Reply Fri 7 Aug, 2015 09:09 am
@helpplease 4379,
What do you care what he does after you leave? If he waited 8 hours would it matter?
0 Replies
 
 

Related Topics

 
  1. Forums
  2. » boyfriend watches porn right after we have sex
Copyright © 2019 MadLab, LLC :: Terms of Service :: Privacy Policy :: Page generated in 0.05 seconds on 10/13/2019 at 11:26:41