Lost in Self

I'm sure I can't help in terms of your confusion, but I do want to welcome you to A2K and I hope you can find some peace with your preferences and your choices, whatever they turn out to be.

It's not unusual to have crushes on same sex persons.

Relax. Love everyone. You will know more about yourself as time goes by.

(Be sure to make your decisions sober and drug-free)

Just be you and true to yourself, that is all that matters..

It is true, alot of girls see the beauty in girls, we are after all interesting creatures, maybe what you are looking at is what you would like to see in yourself...

I agree with punkey, make all your choices with a clear head and eventually you'll make the right one for you.

BTW, how old are you? loads of people feel this way

I am not sure if I can help with your confusion, but whatever your feelings are let your boyfriend know...I speak from experience, I am married and never told my husband of these feelings, now I feel guilty every time I have them, be honest with your self now and you will feel much better later on in life. Btw, I do love my husband, I just have these feelings once in a great while

Please don't torment yourself about your feelings. It's useless to do so and injures you. Your feelings and desires are your own. Life is all about sharing them with intimate others. You don't share your feelings with mere strangers. I, too, have those feelings you speak of, but I'm in my forties and enjoy them. There is nothing wrong with you, believe me. Loneliness and isolation are what's wrong with people. The women whom I am intimate with please me in many ways that I am so grateful for; the men, too. There is no deeper thing on this earth than a love relation, no matter with who, that lasts. Mine are not exclusive either. As things have turned out for me, "exclusive love relations" don't suit either me or the people I want to be close to me. Make your own life and trust yourself: follow your own thoughts and desires and make your own judgments.