hey guys.well im 27 and my girlfriend is 24. we have been dating for almost 2 years now. anyways she does be on facebook a lot. she plays this game called farmville so in order to get more points on the game she added some random people (2 guys and 2 girls) anyways one of the guys she added started chatting to her on facebook chat. they chatted a bit but nothing major. she did say to him ONE time that she has a boyfriend because he asked. anyways i found out he was calling her stuff like honey and dear and one time he even said he really likes her and wants to be with her, to which she kept on chatting normally. i found out this becuase she left her facebook open one day. we argued about this. i told her she should have told him to back off but she said she didnt take him seriously at all and that he obviously wasnt serious. should she have told him to back off or was she right not to take notice?? Sorry about the ling question.
Typical female wanting the attention of another guy + you. If he turns out to be/have something she wants or needs that you can't offer, she will gladly trade up. Shes playing the field. If she was totally into you, that guy wouldn't exist, nor would she feel the need to chat with him. There's not too much you can do, so you might as well get yourself a few girls to chat with, give her a taste of how it looks from the other side.