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Does "I'm not ready" (in terms of dating) always mean a rejection?

 
 
tod3
 
Reply Sun 22 Jan, 2012 04:16 pm
I was seeing someone for 2 months and out of the blue got this line. I see it as a rejection because it seems so direct. She is going through a divorce (at the end of a 2 year process) and even though that is hard to take it seems if she really cared she could have found other ways to say we need to slow things down.
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contrex
 
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Reply Sun 22 Jan, 2012 04:42 pm
2 months is nothing. Move on. It's not just about you, it's about her as well.
contrex
 
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Reply Sun 22 Jan, 2012 04:43 pm
@contrex,
contrex wrote:

2 months is nothing. Move on. It's not just about you, it's about her as well.


Quote:
it seems if she really cared she could have found other ways to say we need to slow things down.


Maybe she didn't, or maybe you came over as having a big sense of entitlement? Either way, move on.
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roger
 
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Reply Sun 22 Jan, 2012 05:10 pm
@tod3,
Not Ready for what? Maybe she's just being cautious.
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cicerone imposter
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jan, 2012 04:22 am
@tod3,
Don't take it personal, and move on.
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Mon 23 Jan, 2012 11:19 am
Congrats - you are what they call a "transition man.'

You filled your duty.

Now move on.

She may or may not call you back.

When she said she is "not ready" she means she's not ready to settle down with one man and is just now seeing the opportunties ahead.
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SuperbVPN
 
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Reply Wed 25 Jan, 2012 05:52 am
@tod3,
Yes, she is not ready for new begging. Just live her to think what she really want. Don't pressure her.
Romymarion
 
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Reply Mon 13 Feb, 2012 12:05 am
@SuperbVPN,
only two month is nothing. Move on.
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