what's the meaning of "looking the way you do"?

Without seeing more context, I would say it means the women has a very sexual appearance to her.

This doesn't sound like natural English to me.

So what would you rather [do/see/eat/...]?

Your answer sounds confusing as the question does.
First, "women has" is grammatically flawed. Should it be "woman has"?
Second, if she's so sexy, she'd be possessed by the man, not to possess (which is the purpose).
Third, I'll come up later.