@angelray1128,
I'm so sorry about your kitten. Now, the vet is right. Usually, the deworming or vaccines do not make the kitten suffer so much trauma. The nail caps also are not a problem. Now, I heard that your vet said that the cat may have eaten the Christmas tree, this is a highly plausible scenario. However, as far as caring for your kitten, there are a couple things I should tell you.
1. When you buy cat food, in order for it to be the best for your cat, you may want to look at the ingredients. If the first ingredients are chicken, salmon, or something that looks "good," it is most likely the best. However if it says Corn Gluten as the first ingredient, you may want to pass it up. I reccomend ONE cat food.
2. It's not a bad thing to feed your cat wet food. It's actually good for him to stay on a balanced diet of both foods. But make sure not to give him too much!
3.When the kitten is a kitten, wet food is probably a tad better for them.
4. Look at the list of poisonous plants for cats and make sure you don't have any in your house:
http://www.aspca.org/Pet-care/poison-control/Plants.aspx?plant_toxicity=toxic-to-cats
5. Don't fast your cat because that will lead to him not liking you anymore.
6. Play with him and he will most likely heal faster.
Hope that helped!