@SweetPalumba,
SweetPalumba wrote:I had some questions about my boyfriends strange sexual turn on and want to see if anyone has any proper answers what the deal is here as I don't know what to make of it. I hope its more common than I thought.
That depends. How common did you think it was?
SweetPalumba wrote:I consider it a kind of a roleplay but its just strange lol! but I do it just so he can be turned on so we can carry on the action. I don't mind to much.
Well, if you don't mind too much, then there's really not a problem here. Is his fixation strange? Yeah, I'd say it's strange, but it's fairly innocuous as far as strange fetishes go, and if you're OK with it, then let the good times roll. My experience with this sort of thing is limited -- I prefer to use a yardstick instead of a ruler.
SweetPalumba wrote:I just want to know why a guy would be so turned on by something like this which is so weird. I am looking more for the deep psychoanalyze type response about men but anything is appreciated.
Profound psychosexual trauma in infancy and latent homoerotic impulses caused by oedipal psychoses generated from an underlying family dynamic of overbearing maternal repression of id impulses sublimated into obsessive-compulsive fixation on the fetish object. Or he could really like having his dick measured.