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Thu 1 Dec, 2011 05:37 pm
Hey folks,
There's this thing going on between me and a friend of mine. He's a little older (30), I'm 20 and he's married with one child. We have a very weird relationship, which means that although we do stuff together (like sporting, cycling, he helps me with everything,...) we're always arguing and teasing each other. It's getting this obvious that I think we're scared to fall in love. Therefore we pretend not to care, but that makes it all even worse, because then I miss our close conversations, our games,... I don't know what to do. I would feel better if I could tell him about my feelings, because then this huge 'fight' between us would finally stop. But how am I sure he feels the same? How can you see that a man realy cares about you?
Btw, I don't want a relationship or something with him, I'm pretty sure that won't work. I just want to talk about it with him so that we can act normal to each other
@Repelsteeltje,
I would tell you husband that you are seeing this guy and that you have thoughts of infidelity and see what he thinks. Always good to have another opinion.
@gustavratzenhofer,
gustav, have you read this carefully? She is not married! It is him who has a wife and a kid....the rest fits though.
Repelsteeltje,
he's married with a child, back off! You are obviously flirting with him and playing with fire. It will only burn and destroy, so back off and leave him alone!
Repel - are you sure he doesn't think of you as a little sister?
@Repelsteeltje,
back off, even if you get the "Hollywood happy ending" which's getting intimate and him leaving his wife and kid for you, it'll never feel good, deep inside he'll have some regret for the things he lost to get you and you'll see it in his eyes (at least when he's coming back from visiting his kid) and you'll always have some sort of guilt for turning his life upside down and/or feel you were selfish, etc...
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