im 13 180 pounds help

I'm going to assume you're male (user names can be deceiving). What's your height? How long have you been trying to lose weight? What does your doctor say? Your parents? What is your diet like?

im a male parents say im not fat bs haven't gone to a doctor and 5.7 is my height and my diet is no snakes breakfast, dinner, and lunch.

Well, yes, but the more specific you get, the better. A lot of soda (even diet soda) is not good for you - water is better. Do you eat fruits and vegs? And no, french fries don't count as a vegetable. It's things like that. You will probably do best to start by making simple substitutions. Just ... choose better foods, to start. This begins to get you into the habit of not only eating better but also thinking about what you're putting in your mouth, and the consequences, and not always just accepting whatever is handed to you.

Write down everything you eat tomorrow and post the results. 180 is heavy for 5'7", but grow three more inches and you will be fine. The trick from here on out is to not gain any more and history shows that is a challenge since everything around you encourages you to eat. What sports do you play?