@GracieGirl,
GracieGirl wrote:Was it hard having all that stuff to pay for and not having money and stuff? Did you sometimes wish you didnt go to college?
I think you asked Eva and not me, but since I was talking about that, YES it was hard. I really hated being that poor. I had the bare minimum (roof over my head, adequate if gross veggie food in my tummy, enough clothes for warmth) but the pure
utilitarianism got to me. I'm someone who likes fashion and I just couldn't afford the things I really wanted/ liked. Did a lot of nosing around at Goodwill, and even then things could be too expensive for me. (I made maybe one $5 clothes purchase from Goodwill/ month, if that.)
And the gross veggie food was really wearing. (Veggie food can be delicious, this was usually gross. It was more a function of the skill level of the cooks and the food budget than the veggieness per se.) I'd really want to have a great dinner at a good restaurant, but it was just not affordable for me.
So, that all sucked and when I got a job and started making some actual money it was pure bliss to be able to splurge now and then.
But I did find ways. In addition to Goodwill finds (and I found some amazing stuff in the $1-$5 range), I'd go to the farmer's market 10 minutes before they closed, and come away with armfuls of fresh flowers for a fraction of their regular cost (they throw away anything that doesn't sell at the market, and they were sympathetic to the starving student). I mentioned elsewhere recently that one store would put out their empty cardboard soap boxes for anyone to take, and I figured out when they would do that every week and hover and swoop in and get the prettiest ones -- for free! Things like that to add a little color and pleasure to my life for very little money.
And of course I was a student at a very nice university. There were lots of gorgeous buildings where I could hang out for free, so it wasn't all squalor.
Overall it was a very good experience and I'm not sure I'd change much about it. I grew up without much money either but the thrift that was forced upon me once I was on my own taught me a lot.
And college itself was amazingwonderfulfantasticthebest. Highly recommended.