What should I do??

He is starting up a business?

Try to understand what that means. You are asking for attention when he must give 150% of his attention to this startup.

I know it must be hurtful at this time, but try to get your needs filled elsewhere with family and friends.

If he is still acting like this in 6 months, write again.

I agree with Punkey.

The only way a business is successful is to put over 100% into it but he is a bit tackless, he could have explained to you how that works and that he'd love you to understand and support him, otherwise, do you think he is deliberately pushing you away, given he says he expects to leave and won't let you speak.

besides him what do you love i believe you are codependant and are counting on him to love you and if he loves you i believe that you think he must show/profess his love for you if he was to choose his work over you he would be choosing himself over you he believes you will leave him because he is already on this path and will not turn away from it but the true question is do you love him? if indeed you do then you would love him unselfishly and encourage him to persue his dream of running his company you too would want to skip out on vacations that would seem like a waste of valueable time time needed to move foward truth is when he finaly meets all his goals and turns to see that your still there he will surely value you as a true companion faithful and loving and will love you. my only other though is difficult to say but i think the truth is difficult to handle sometimes i think he is not paying attention to you because he may not feel the way you do about him and if you're out of the picture then he has more time to consentrate on his job at hand Then why is he with you in the first place you may ask Well thats easy men have emotional and physical needs that must be met having a girl friend is convienent. sorry if i offend you i feel for you because i too am a romantic like you who is stuck with some one who is not a romantic and you still have an opertunity to find some one that can treat you the way you want to be treated. Like the center of the universe!

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Thank you. That is the fourth time it's been mentioned to me. I have a minimal amount of education. Never been much of a writer, but i didn't think this site would be full of fannatical english majors. I joined the Marines instead of going to college for this same reason I suck at writing. thanks for your advice I will consider it.

Hey cuervo,



Write from your heart, that's what's important...

In my experience, men definately have emotions, wish more women realised that.

I think with the OP the person has goals / dreams, much like you.. His is business yours is emotions.

My take is if you are not getting what you need, then you are not with the person you should be with..

Best wishes and you wrote well, from the heart , people who are "so active" on Forums sometimes get fed up with some things repeating I am sure Punkey didn't mean it the way you took it.....

Thank you. I wasn't offended, Just truthful.