@contrex,
It's not meant to be patronizing. I simply noticed
when I was doing phonetics (we had to transcribe from dictation) that some people could hear subtle differences like the hint of an "h" in front of words and some could not differentiate.
Others could not HEAR that the end sound of multitudes of words that end with er were not pronounced as is the er in Herman, but as an "uh" sound.
Believe me or not, for many there is a hint of "H" in front of many words, including the "aitch" in words like PhD, whisper, whimper, whom, which etc that is not there in Watson, wander and witch and wimp. It's odd I can hear them clearly because I am reasonably deaf...but I aced the transcription and was quite surprised that it was so common that people really could not hear what was said as opposed to what was written.
If you want to make this some sort of emotional drama I don't...but I know Oristar A is often interested in subtleties and I was letting him know about these.
Not everything is about you and your defensiveness, and that you have not noticed some subtleties doesn't mean they don't exist, or that I am implying anything untoward about you and your armies of rellies with PhDs, who may well speak a slightly different dialect of English than I do.