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Tue 12 Jul, 2011 10:53 pm
Well I dated this guy and I dumped him cuz some things happened. My parents know about those things and don't approve of me ever goin out with him again. Were really good friends now, but he's dating by friend and it killed me. I know he's still in to me, but he doesn't wanna secretly date. My step brother goes to school with me and hates him for no reason. So there's no doubt in my mind he'll tell them. I love him soo much. He's a great kid and he understands me and who I truly am. I tell him more than I tell my best friend. Now that you know all that I'll tell you my age. I'm 12. Don't say I'm too young too love cuz I'm not. Anyway were always fighting over stupid stuff cuz I have anger issues. What can I get him as an I'm sorry gift... You know, for all the fights I've caused. I don't care about the price. He doesn't play any sports but he's interested in hockey . I know like everything about him. It doesn't help much to what I should get him. Sooo any ideas? Please try and stay on the topic peoplee. :p thank you soo much for your time and answers.
@Love Forever,
He may be too young to appreciate it, but I suggest you go with conversation and forget the gift idea.
@roger,
Thanks, your probably right... But he gets even more mad when I just say a simple I'm sorry. Cuz he feels like I don't mean it or care... Like I just wanna get the fight over with. So do you know a way I can change the way I apologize to make him understand that I care and truly mean it?
@Love Forever,
I don't think I can help. I can surely remember how life and death important the relationships were when I was that age, but can't help relating as a 67 year old man. I'm going to just hope someone with better insights comes along.
I doubt if a 12 year old fella will "get it".
Just give him a candy bar and tell him you are going to be sweet from now on.
Gifts always do great job but it depends upon the gift and the time of giving. But I will say that you should start talking first and then go for walk, where you can say sorry and at that time he will be in good mood so you can start your same kind of lovely talk as you both used to do.
If he won't accept your apology what makes you think you can "buy" forgiveness with a gift? You are only 12? "Shaking my head". Oh, and I really had to laugh at your "please stay on topic people." You're only 12?
@neha1986,
Agreed - and also a gift seems like you are "buying" him. Start off slow, just still talking with him. How does he seem to feel about having a friendship with you? Maybe say your sorry, could we be friends? And then work from there.
Curious how does your parents feel about you being friends with him? Is it this boy or just the "dating" they have problems with?
@Love Forever,
Quote:I dumped him cuz some things happened...
Please elaborate on this, it will help me understand the problem.
@PUNKEY,
GIVE HIM A LOLIPOP AND SAY SWEET BABY........THANKS AUTHOR
@Love Forever,
You state that you know everything about him yet you want a bunch of strangers to suggest what you should get him as an "I'm sorry present?"
Anyway, here's a novel suggestion. You are 12 years old. Listen to your parents and stay away from him. They have your best interest at heart.
@Love Forever,
thanks every body i am new i want to know about u..
thanks
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@Love Forever,
You're kind of an idiot. You can't buy love, if it's not meant to be then it's not. If your parents don't like him then you shouldn't either. Family will always be there, don't go behind your family for that one stupid guy. Plus, you're 12, you have a whole life ahead of you. You haven't even hit High School and you're already upset about a guy. There are so many more important things than one guy, you need to focus on you, not him.
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