You've totally misunderstood the nature of my question to you. I was not bashing you at all. I was simply inquiring as to what you felt was happening in this recent change in both your mom's and your behavior. Why haven't you asked your mom what she thinks about the recent behavioral change?
What is 'Normal' is irrelevant but your feelings about your own behavior and your opinion is what matters - not anyone else's. Your words indicated to me that you felt it was not normal. I was trying to help you reflect on your own behavior. When someone is very young, having the ability to self-reflect is very important.
In the future, you might want to think first and not be so defensive. If the level of your maturity and your response is an indicator, you need to grow quite up a bit, to say the least. Take a look around the questions and posts on A2K. When people ask for help here, people often do their best to give the honest truth - not advice telling people what they want to hear.
When you don't understand someone's response (as you clearly didn't), you should ask about the nature of the response and not assume it's someone bashing you.