@Olivier5,
It's only "bad philosophy" to a naive realist. The idea that observer and observed are inextricable could be said to be
self evident from the point of non-duality. (Note too that the concept of "physical force" is also predicated on naive realism).
The key issue is of course with the word "existence" which naive realists assume has
meaning independent of observation. The counter-argument that "things should disappear" when your back is turned is irrelevant since "things" are still "existent" in the mind's eye of the skeptic who is suggesting the disappearance scenario. We are all so steeped in the naive realism of daily life, and the language which supports it, that non-duality
seems far-fetched or dysfunctional.