@maxdancona,
A physics professor of mine was fond of this quote...
John Archibald Wheeler wrote:If you are not completely confused by quantum mechanics, you do not understand it.
For everyone trying to claim that it is simple to explain, or that it would make perfect sense if we just understood on thing really don't know what they are talking about. It is not just the mathematics, it's the results of the experiments (over 50 years now) that confirm the mathematics. There is some weird things that break human intuition.
If you want to learn the science you need to accept this, the experimental results don't make sense to the human mind. This means you need to either drop the idea that things should make sense, or you need to abandon the idea that science should be based on experimental results and mathematics.
Scientists go with observation, experiment and mathematics.