@TakingItToHeart,
Not feeling guilty - are you feeling guilty for that, for not being more affected?
I think you're handling this just fine. No sense in feeling badly about something that at least from a reading of the issues as you have presented them, wasn't your fault at all.
So go and live your life, glad that you are rid of a user and that you never did anything beyond prayer, e. g. give her money.
If she is truly sick, that will come out at some point in time. Just because someone looks healthy does not mean that they are. Keep that in mind. But I'd still say, don't feel guilty about it. Not everyone -- even the folks with cancer -- is going to be lovable to everyone on the planet. You're even allowed to not like those people if they are not nice to you. Cancer does not give them a free pass to trample all over your feelings.