Hey, Ceili, As I told ehBeth, It's not meant to be "choose one or the other on peril of your life", it's meant to be a simple rumination or perhaps a predilection. Hey, gal. If you'd quit being such a gypsy.....
But, you're on target, Ceili, Sensitive men--people who write--people who create, are beautiful to know. Guess that's the teacher coming out in me.