@Justin Xu,
Quote:I just wonder how this website operates. Anyone who sees my question can answer it or there is a certain group that is responsible to answer all the questions posted? If my questions really give too much burden on you, please say so, and I won't ask questions any more. Just tell me the reason, please.
Justin, you have to realize something here.
Most of these people have never taught ESL/EFL. They don't have the necessary grasp of the difficulties encountered by second language learners.
Many rely on old misguided notions of the rules of English. Many do give excellent advice when they rely on their native judgments, unaffected by the "teachings" they received from parents/prescriptivists.
But even honest native judgments about language are often badly colored by misconceptions about "correct"/slang/"bad language"/... .
There is also the, "we don't do homework" attitude. You just saw a variant in DadPad's response. Don't be too concerned about that for it contained a tiny measure of ignorance but it also contained a good measure of merit.
His point is that if you offer your ideas of what it means, and your ideas of what the pronoun referent is [in this case, you asked about 'it], it may give us further clues as to why you misunderstand something.
It's kinda like telling a doctor all your symptoms. In this way, the doctor can look at all the potential problems.
So don't be too upset with Dadpad. I'm sure he didn't intend rudeness. He meant well I'm sure. It's just that westerners, especially those ignorant Aussies,
don't pull any punches. They speak their mind/they tell it like it is/they don't stand on ceremony/... .
See all the extras [idioms/chances to understand a real life explanation with real life context] that you may have learned from just one little encounter.