@Diane,
No big deal - everyone is nuts sometimes, and in the long run it doesn't either matter or change anything. Glad to learn that you are still the caring, but sometimes mildly exasperated gal I met in Albuquerque, and that Dys is likely the same cranky and deliberately provocative pseudo cowboy he has always been. You are both generous and amiable folks, even on a bad day, and that's good enough for us all.