Go behind a Girl-Friend or not

Okay well I'll translate because the expression "go behind a girlfriend" really isn't conversational English. What I expect you mean is -- and please correct me if I'm wrong -- having a steady girlfriend.

Well, if you don't want a steady girlfriend, don't try to have one.

Really, this is not difficult.

Sorry if I sound flip but the bottom line is, if you don't think you can be faithful and treat someone right, don't waste their time. You are allowed to have nonexclusive relationships in your life, so long as both of the parties know the score.

If you are not ready to settle down -- and it's not impossible that you will never be ready -- don't force it.

Good answer, Jespah.

What do you mean you "can't control myself" around girls?

Maybe your mind is racing, but you don't have to ACT on every feeling you have.

At age 24, it is now time to start looking for a relationship.

Find a "nice" one who is also "hot" for you. That will be the trick.

Your name suggests you're from India. I'm fed up of this typical Indian attitude harbored by a majority of Indians that they need to settle down in life before looking for a partner.

He just seems very immature and in awe of most women.

Take it one step at a time.

If you meet a girl you like ask her out.

The see what happens.