@pukka,
Actually, I just got your post about which was your gf mixed up with the one above it, or something like that. I thought you'd identified the dark-haired one as your gf. My mistake. I wasn't thinking about the confidence angle. Anyway, I do prefer dark hair and those eyes, but probably because I've been living in Asia for 14 years. Both of them are knockouts and like I said, I would be oh so happy to be with the blond. If it weren't for my Asian thing, I wouldn't have any reason to put one above the other. You're one lucky dude, dude.
Edit: I just looked at the pic of her with her natural hair color. Whoa!!! Damn!!! I wish I were there to shake your hand...