@james203,
james203 wrote:
she recently started working with me and im nice so i was the first to start talking to her, she then kind of started being around me alot stares sometimes and asks me to walk to her car, and 1 of our managers said we were flirting and she doesnt do it anybody else but to me it didnt seem like that. even when i think she may be flirting she then she starts talking about her boyfriend.
She does not like you... She likes to talk... It is how girls relate... They talk about stuff and tie into the larger consciousness, primarily of other women who have the sense to think in this fashion... Men just relate by bumping pecker heads or something, you know, like Mountain Sheep hammering horns, sharing physical violence, not talking, doing... What is the point of all that doing if it gets nothing meaningful done??? Stick with the girl, but don't call it flirting... Call it: Trying to Relate... It may be good practice for you.... What if you actually have a wife, and god forbid: Daughters... What if, suddenly, you were out of the blue forced to become a human being and relate to someone, even if their problems were totally juvenile and pointless from your perspective... Then, perhaps you could think back to your friendship with this girl and ask: If I really cared what the hell was going on with this person in my life, what would I say, or better yet, not say, to them based upon your prior friendship with your current friend at work...