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what do you do when you think your man is lying?

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Depends on the situation.....

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@Babe2010,

Babe2010 wrote:

what do you do when you think your man is lying?

It is natural for a man and unnatural not to, and very natural to sleep that way...

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@Fido,

thats not what i meant. lieing....

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@JessiHart,

he lies about everything.

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@Babe2010,

How do we know you are not lying?

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@Francis,

what? wh would I lie. I have been with this guy for over 4 years and i jusr dont understand why he thinks he has to lie to me. you piss people off more when you lie.

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@Babe2010,

Why would he lie?

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@Francis,

lets see. he lies about staying up late and doing things that he knows i dont like. he tells me that he isnt doing anything that i dont like and then i find out he has.

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@Babe2010,

So, he should avoid doing things he likes because you don't like the things he does?

Are those things illegal or it's just you don't like it?

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@Francis,

not illegal. But when you are with someone you love you should respect their wishes. for example: porn. why watch it if you have the real thing right there. he can do whatever he likes to do. i would just like to be told the truth when i ask about it.

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@Babe2010,

Ok, the eternal porn problem!

Nothing that I can advise about..

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@Francis,

why not! i wouldnt care if he did it. like i said i dont want to be lied to. i just want and honest answer from him. he says he wants to get a job and that he has applied to many places. but so far no job. if he really doesnt want one then he can tell me.

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@Babe2010,

find someone else and move on with your life. If he lies about that, more than likley he lies about other things, too

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@Babe2010,

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thats not what i meant. lieing....

Let me draw this conclusion out of my ass: He is from a broken home, and was raised by his mother...

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Babe2010,

We don't have the complete picture of your situation here. Would you care to elaborate? What things he has said you think are lies? And what makes you feel they are lies?

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@Babe2010,

Babe2010 wrote:

not illegal. But when you are with someone you love you should respect their wishes. for example: porn. why watch it if you have the real thing right there. he can do whatever he likes to do. i would just like to be told the truth when i ask about it.

And when you love some one you should respect them even if they are a lieing sex addict who cannot sleep when it is time to sleep... I put myself to sleep with this computer... Late at night is the only time I feel I can read or write, or think... It does not help my life or relationship, and I should certainly cut back on it, but I am not going to make things worse by going porn or lieing about it... I love my wife... Perhaps that guy loves you...

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Babe - you are in a relationship with a guy who loves porn, then lies about how much he watches it, and has no job. You have gotten into the "critical mother" role with him. He is a bad boy and you don't know how to discipline him.

I suspect there is more than just the porn and no job . . .

Is that the way you want to live?

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@Fido,

yep . baiscally. Mom doesnt care what he does..

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@Fido,

i dont care what he does. i just need the lies to stop. i want to have an honest relationship..

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