Recently had a one night stand

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I recently had a one night stand just 2 days ago. Since then i can't stop thinking about her and the amazing sex i had. The sex was something out of a porno film. Maybe that's why i can't stop thinking about her. I even got a text from her friend saying " My roommate said you we're amazing" It's been two days can i call her or shoot her a text telling her i'm interested in her and that i'd like to hang out and get to know her more? or do i just let it slide and forget about her? Do you think she's thinking about me as well?

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@mattdeezy651,

Geez, why is her friend writing to you?

Anyway, perhaps I'm just a fogey.

Sure, send her a text, see what happens.

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@jespah,

Yeah I find it quite strange her friend is sending me text messages. Maybe this girl isn't relationship material. Hmm

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@jespah,

jespah wrote:

Geez, why is her friend writing to you?

Anyway, perhaps I'm just a fogey.

Sure, send her a text, see what happens.

I know I'm a fogey.

It stikes me as strange that boinking her was so matter-of-fact,
but calling her on the phone requires soul-searching and advice.

Anyhow, if you really mean it about wanting to get to know her,
of course call.
Now.

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@mattdeezy651,

What would her roomate know about you???

Some times, people actually meet and meat people that they clique with... That is just effin impossible... I would play hard to get, and make her jump through her ass for a date with you... Like my Groucho used to say: I wouldn't look twice at a woman who would look at me once, or something like that..

It could be that just about any woman out there can be the right woman for the right man... The right man is about impossible to find, and once a woman gets burned they git sort of skiddish of love... That is what you could do... Find some way to really burn her bad so she will become a life long member of the I H M society... They are always recruiting, as if they have to try..

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@mattdeezy651,

mattdeezy651 wrote:

Yeah I find it quite strange her friend is sending me text messages. Maybe this girl isn't relationship material. Hmm

Dumess... It's an intelligence test... Have you ever played cards and engaged in table talk... You don't just say: I'm two suited with both bowers... You find another and less direct method of revealing your hand, or you shut up and play it... She is telling you something with another mouth... How bad do you want to believe it, because the proper response to her is: Tell her she was amazing, and I think I am love, and I am scared right down to my penny loafers and I want to see her again as soon as possible... Play your cards from the heart...

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@mattdeezy651,

You didn't mention anything about her personality, your conversations, common interests, etc. Isn't there anything beside great sex that is important to you?

There is more to good relationships than sex.

BBB

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Geez - did she have a bag over her head? mouth taped over with duct tape? No pillow talk between you two afterwards?

How in the world did you have great sex with someone and there be no followup conversation? Did she run out of the room? Did you pass out?

Ye gads - be a gentleman and call her. That is, if you can even remember her name.

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Some of the best sex I ever had was one night stands, I didn't know them, they didn't know me. We didn't want it any other way. Not a complicated idea.

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@dyslexia,

I have 2 night stands.

I mean, they're nothing fancy, I got them at Target.

But, my alarm clock sits on one just fine, and I know right where my artificial tears are in the drawer. In the other one I keep a sewing kit.

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@chai2,

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@BumbleBeeBoogie,

BumbleBeeBoogie wrote:

You didn't mention anything about her personality, your conversations, common interests, etc. Isn't there anything beside great sex that is important to you?

There is more to good relationships than sex.

BBB

Really??? I will agree if you exclude both ends and the middle... Bad sex, if there is such a thing certainly indicates a troubled relationship, and good sex can certainly heal a lot of the wounds life inflicts... Generally speaking though, people should not look to relationships to make them well... Good relationships take good health and the energy of youth... Love is not for the weak; but for the strong...

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@dyslexia,

dyslexia wrote:

Some of the best sex I ever had was one night stands, I didn't know them, they didn't know me. We didn't want it any other way. Not a complicated idea.

Sure... Reminds me of the famous line: Quit looking at me; ...you know I can only have an orgasm if you pretend you're passed out!!!

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@Fido,

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I would play hard to get, and make her jump through her ass for a date with you... Like my Groucho used to say: I wouldn't look twice at a woman who would look at me once, or something like that..

Play hard? Play games with her? This is exactly the sort of thing I don't like about some men. This is not some Hollywood flick, for God's sake. Why not just make life less complicated for everyone - be direct and tell her you had an amazing night, and ask her out?

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@George,

George wrote:

It stikes me as strange that boinking her was so matter-of-fact,
but calling her on the phone requires soul-searching and advice.

Indeed. It seems that the young folks nowadays use sex as a pretext to get to know someone.

Back in my day it was different. We would court a girl, send her flowers and handwritten notes on embossed stationery, and take her to the cotillion, where, while her attention was diverted by a stereopticon slide of the Columbian Exposition, we'd carefully slip some laudanum in her mint julep.

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@joefromchicago,

Ah, I wish I were born during those times.

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@spidergal,

We're both hopeless romantics.

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@joefromchicago,

I expect Mickey Rooney and Judy Garland to break out in song any time now.

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Well, it sounds like your basic "zipless ****."

It will only get complicated if he wants a repeat.

Ah, youth; Wasted on the young.

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@Fido,

Well the girl that i boinked apparently told her roomate about me. Told her how much she enjoyed me in the sack. Then her roomate said that she wanted to see what she missed. Sounds like a whorehouse i know. Just a bunch of college girls. So the girl that i had sex with found me on facebook. So she obviously can't get enough. wonder if she just wants to have sex or take it to the next level? i dont know.

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