@JPLosman0711,
You still make absolutely no sense and are completely contradictory as if you don't even understand the basic principles of language.
Language is actually all about that "word game" and the technical term for that "word game" is called Semantics. Semantics focuses on the relation between signifiers, such as words, phrases, signs and symbols, and what they stand for or their denotata. Now Linguistic semantics specifically, is the study of meaning that is used by humans to express themselves through language...which is what we are doing here.
Meaning and definitions 'can' be confused regardless of them only being concepts, they are separate, individual concepts in which some people believe to be synonyms of each other when they actually are not. The process in which we use in attempting to agree on their definitions is semantics which is what you also referred to as "tricking" someone into agreeing with you which is what it's all about.
Meaning is created from our connection with the world around us. It comes from our understanding, how we perceive things, our experiences, etc. Now I can see how understanding and definitions can be confused. The difference between a definition and an understanding is basically what a word represents in general as opposed to our individual comprehension of it.