oral sex after penetration

Penetration where?

oh,..right,..vaginal.

If that's how the woman likes to have an orgasm, I think it's a fine idea.

thank you. ok well,...how does the general community feel,..like a poll? i've known women to be put off by the action, that is pausing intercourse to perform oral sex. I suppose it could be a distraction, in the changing of sensation from one location to another?

Is this for real or do you just want to read sexual descriptions?

my thought too.

why does it matter?

Why does it matter is a good question, shewolf. I would hope that no two sexual romps are the same, even if the partner is!

Maybe it's someone trying to figure out for themselves if it shoud matter.


I asked the wrong question BTW, I was reading the question as if it was the woman that was going to give oral sex, after she'd been penetrated.

That's why I asked "where"?

The end result is they should be asking the person they are with, since not everyone likes the same thing.

I can imagine situations where the woman might like it, and then again, she might not.

Ha! I hadn't read this before responding to shewolf.

What I said.

I don't mind answering that question, because it might be helpful to women who are like me, but feel something is wrong with them.

I personally would like it, because I don't experience orgasms through penetration.

But no, I'm not going to go into descriptions or detail.

the question is of simple curiosity and i'm not looking for people's descriptions. i can accept that it can be different from one person to the next, as most things of this nature will be. i apologize for the confusion and thank you for replying, criticizing and etc.

I just wonder whether women are very different in their approach to sex and their feelings about sex than men.

That's hackneyed, I know, but, I told my last partner that I thought all men performed sex the same way, as though they read the same manual. Three to five minutes of attention paid to a woman's breasts, followed by three to five minutes of paying attention to her clitoris with their hands and another three to five minutes of oral attention to the clitoris followed by penetration. Repeat as often as necessary.

He said that his experience was that every woman is different.

A number of men, perhaps, just short of half, will limit the first encounter with a woman to strict attention to her, culminating in performing oral sex upon her without intercourse and without asking for fellatio in return.

That's my summary.

Some men have requests that have to do with how women should touch their bodies, which may or not be deal breakers for the women.

As a woman who might have an orgasm at any step but who prefers penetration, sure, oral sex after penetration is fine, but, it is better if the woman pays attention to the man at that point than if he stops and frustrates her with a return to oral sex.