okay, so this friend of mine claims she is my best friend, i caimed her for a few years as well.... i believe she did something unforgivable...
a guy friend of mine and myself were getting really close, not romantically, and he wanted to know what i was like from her point of view, so one night this summer whilst we were talking he said he hadto get the other line... i told him he could call me back i had something to do anyway...
i text him about an hour later saying im about to head out for the night, so call me back. he replied "umm i dont think i can do this i have to much on my mind, ill talk to you when i figure this stuff out" im one of those people who has experienced alot during life and enjoys passing it on to others... i told him i was happy to help in anyway i could.. he stated it was to late for help, to which i replied it is never to late...
the moment i press send, i get a phone call from the "friend" crying her eyes out telling me that she did something horrible and she was sorry... not putting things together i say that its fine... and i love her... she starts to cry harder... she tells me that she told him that i was a whore who wanted his friendship for sex and i would lie to him until i got what i wanted, then i would stop talking to him.. after this i asked her how jealous was she that she would do this... she had nothing to say so i hung up and told him i knew what had happened and i was sorry for her immaturity. he told me we were still friends but our status had to change...
i have only spoken to him once in two months...
she apologized for days after, i finally accepted a call and told her she was selfish and i would never forgive her but im not one to throw you under a bus so i will talk to you. things were going okay for a while.... then one day last week she stated that she didnt like my friendship with her ex who she broke up with for another guy.. i told her that he was my bestfriend and nothing would change that.. i loved him like i use to love her but now she is the worst friend i have ever had... and i was done with all the bull... i am to old and matture for all this childish drama.
did i do what was right? or was i the childish one?
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