@stevecook172001,
stevecook172001 wrote:
the fact he was 43 and she was 13 meant that there was a fundamental disparity of psychological power in the encounter and so, at the very least, he behaved like deeply creepy f*cker
This could very well be applied to a (shudder) clown entertaining children in the cancer ward of a hospital.
Anyway....
Here's my opinion, and I know I'm going to be told how wrong I am...
The fact that this then 13, now 46? year old is STILL saying it was consenual, even after all these years, means a lot to me.
When I was 16 I started a 10 year relationship with somone significantly older than me. To this day I do not regret one moment of the time I was underage and had to sneak around to be with this man.
It would be different if the now grown woman indicated it was not consenual, but to the best of my knowledge, she never has.
Was what he did wrong? Yes.
Should this have happened? No.
But, if the only people who have a right to be angry at him, and mainly the woman in question, have no issue, then I don't either.
Question, has he ever been implicated with any other act like this?