@aaronssongs,
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That we're both playing on a level playing field...that I am afforded the same opportunities, resources, and expectations that you are.
There is a such thing as "white privilege"...Debbie Allen, producer of "A Different World", did a story on a "real life event", that happened to her...the story goes, she went in to a Rodeo Drive jewelry store, in Los Angeles, to buy a gift for a friend, and the salesperson, not recognizing her, offered that she was "out of her league" in this upscale store, and that she should shop "elsewhere".....to which Debbie replied, "Show me the most expensive watch you have in here"...the woman complied, and she "bought it", on the spot, to show her not to underestimate anyone...not even a person of color.
it's not a color thing.... look at Pretty Woman. Julia Roberts was treated pretty much the same way, and went to a completive store and spent all that money there.
Without BEING there or knowing the whole story...
I mean, she could have walked in with ripped pants and looked like a homeless person. I can't say 100% that it was a color thing, but more perhaps an 'appearance' and how she held her self, spoke, or otherwise.
and then it gets turned around (reverse racism!!) into a color thing....
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Where were you when thousands of black voters were turned away from the polls in Florida, preventing them from casting their decided Democratic votes for Gore, in 2000???? The same thing happened in Ohio, in 2004. Do you read?
I vaguely remember this.... i pretty much was dis-interested in politics back then.
I do remember the dead people voting though, so it's obvious the election system is fubar. Every polling center has their own gear, and i think that's a huge problem. we need a standardized voting system put in place.
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Equal employment, equal pay for equal work, benefits, child care, better schools, equipped equally as predominantly white schools are equipped, better teachers, better paid, equal housing opportunity, equal financing with banks and loan corporations, better representation for issues which are particular to the black community, at large....better representation to better express our points of view....and on, and on, and on...
gov't doesn't make plans for blacks and plans for whites.
none of these are government issues though. They are private sector.
schools, they all suck to some extent... and the main issue there is districting and tax monies (or lack there of) that the city is able to collect.
my city is a good example of this.
I'd hazard a guess that the race split is roughly
80% Caucasian
12% Hispanic
7% African-American
1% other (Asian, etc)
We have 8 elementary schools, strategically placed in town since the early 40's or 50's semi-equidistant apart from one another.
Ivy Drive is probably 99% white and is probably the flagship school disctrict.
O'Connel is probably 35% African-american, 30% hispanic, and 35% white and is probably considered the 'worst' school district.
here's ivy drive. its the thing with the field...
ivy drive bristol ct - Google Maps
as you can see, its a nice wooded area on residential streets.
here's oconnel:
park street bristol ct - Google Maps
looks decent from the air, but its really pretty dumpy. all the houses to the right are the 3-family deals i will speak of below.
The area that ivy drive is in is upper middle class homes, 250-350k ish.
the area that o'connel is in is the old downtown area, filled with 3 family homes from the 20's that are pretty much all low income and section 8 rents now.
Short of tearing down the 'old neighborhood' and building nicer houses there, how do you fix this?
No one who can afford a 250k home is going to live in a run down 800 sq ft 3-family on the 3rd floor.
bus them? for better integration? it was discussed many times -- even as far as swapping students with neighboring towns.
at the end of the day, all it does is cost the city tons more money for tons more extra miles for the buses, kids that have 2 hour long bus rides (hell, its a half hour ride for the local route as it is!).
Neither side wants to get up at 4am to be on the bus for 5 am to drive around till 7am to start school at 730 (the bus needs to get there at 7 so it has time to get back to town it came from for its next route).
I've been to both schools for various things (our schools are our voting booths among other things) and while ivy drive is centainly nicer, o'connel is far from a shithole. both schools have the bulletin boards of the kids activities, and so on. it's not like 'How High' or whatever that movie was with John Lovitz... lol
At the end of the day, o'connel is the dream mix, is it not? half or so minorities, little less than half whites.
if that's the dream mix, why is it considered to be the 'bad' school?
all of our schools are funded equally based on student population and other things, regardless of district.
all contain roughly the same kids to teacher ratios - some are just physically larger buildings with obviosuly contain more students.
it's just a bad area. the V or Y just to the right of oconnel - that intersection scares the **** out of me. I HATE hitting that red light. driving a bmw, and being a white boy, everyone stares at me like 'GTFO of my hood rich boy'. All i'm doing is passing through (its a state road and high traffic). I always roll my windows up and lock my doors as i drive through this section. too many punks trying to start ****.
near ivy drive, i'd leave my car unlocked parked in the road for hours without even really thinking about it.
sadly, it's nearly 95% of the time 4 or 5 black guys in their late teens/early 20s sporting colors from gangs from cali like they mean something 3500 miles away (HELLO! There are no crips here!), and trying to be 50 cent gang bangers.
sometimes its the Hispanics yelling **** in Spanish that i don't understand and driving around with their latin king crowns on the dash. A hiring manager probably can't either. learn English if you want to work in the US. Being bi-lingual is a GREAT job skill.
and the worst, yes, the worst are the white boys who think they are 'black' and have something to prove.
To who?
How can i feel bad for them?
They HAVE had every opportunity I have had. I went to public schools. My parents were poor as **** growing up. I missed many lunches for simply not having the $1.25 it cost back then to get hot lunch.
But I also never collected food stamps, had a starter jacket, had the latest air jordans, nor was I on welfare.
We probably should have been... but my dad worked his ass off 2 jobs stocking shelves at the grocery store, 19 hour days for many years to support us and wouldn't hear it.
We went on vacation for the first time when i was 10. I saved my allowance of $2 a week (which even back in 1990 was nothing) for 2 years, and had a grand total of $76 to spend while i was down in washington DC for the week.
I spent most of it on astronaut ice cream at the air and space museam gift shoppe.
I learned from an early age that if i want something, i need to save for it, work hard for it (that $2 wasn't handed to me-- it came with a long list of chores)
My point i'm trying to make in this dibacle of thoughts....
Their school isn't bad. it's the people that GO to the school that are bad, don't care, and don't even want to be their in the first place because it doesn't fit into their get rich or die trying idea of life.
At then end of the day, it's not color of skin to blame....
it's parents and rather, the lack thereof of parenting.