@scooby-doo cv,
"I thought the negotiation idea was an interesting one during the campaign but I have to say I didn't expect this to play out in public so soon and so badly."
When Bush became president, he wanted to use a different approach to foreign policy than Bill Clinton did (a hard line, anti negotiation approach). He left the Israelis and Palestinians to their own devices and broke off serious negotations with N Korea. But after the mideast conflict blew up and N Korea tested a nuclear weapon, he changed course. During the first years of our war in Iraq, the Bush administration didn't try to negotiate with the insurgents. But during his final years in office, we did, and that's credited with changing the course of the war. Bush didn't negotiate enough as president, but he eventually corrected himself.
"Personally, I think that the rest of the world was afraid of Bush because he was loony enough to attack rather he was right or wrong. Kept the world in line. Now, they smell weakness."
The main difference in foreign policy between Obama and Bush (in the later years) isn't negotiation; it's image. Bush has always tried to play up to his base by alienating his adversaries. He did this both in American politics as well as in his foreign policy. Obama's approach is to try to be as friendly, and to alienate as few ppl, as possible (whether they're American liberals, American conservatives, or Mideast fundamentalist Muslims).
In your mind, Bush's approach is better. I strongly disagree. America's PR problem in the Middle East has never been that we're seen as weak or vulnerable. No nation's foreign policy is going to change dramatically based on whether the American president comes off as friendly or a hard ass. Obama may have gotten "slapped down", but it makes no difference. America's real PR problem is that most Muslims see us as anti Muslim. That's something all our Muslim adversaries (Al Queda, Iran) have been taking advantage of using their propaganda, and it's something Obama might be able to help us with. To negotiate peace deals, you need credibility. To have political power, you need popularity. Reaching out to the Muslim world may give us more popularity and credibility there... even if we're slapped down sometimes.
I find it strange that you're criticizing Obama for not being tough enough. For the moment, lets ignore the fact that we probably wouldn't be able to get Iran to do what we want regardless of who our president is. You've said that Bush kept the world in line out of fear, and i have some questions about that. Was he keeping the world in line when he called Iran part of an axis of evil... and Iran's voters responded by throwing out a reformist, pro western president and electing a hard liner? What about when the Palestinians voted for Hamas and another round of violence erupted during Bush's watch? The evidence shows me that a macho, antagonistic US strengthens (not weakens) the macho and antagonistic elements in the Muslim world.