@Curmudgeon,
49, white, married 27 years, mixed marriage, 5 children, four grandchildren (so far), had homes in the Republic of the Philippines; East Anglia, UK; Iceland; Alaska, Virgina, and New Mexico. Traveled on long and short trips to Japan; South Korea; Canada (drove the Alaskan highway five times); Wales (South and North); almost forgot Cornwall; Scotland; West Germany; Netherlands, Belgium; Spain; Austria; Italy; Morocco; and 43 of the 50 states. Flown low level over/through and landed in other countries (can't remember where, just know I did).
One thing to remember with youngsters (or anyone of any age) who are inteligent and talented. People are able to relate or evaluate issues based on their experience and knowledge.
Most reasonable people will come to the same conclusion given similar knowledge and experience sets with which to evaluate a given situation. An illustration of this is a classroom exercise in which a set of circumstances is presented with a set of rules to evaluate the circumstance. Most of the class will arrive at a similar result/solution. Humans are humans.