@Sabz5150,
Sabz5150;50869 wrote:Again, agreed. However it should be available, should that last resort be needed.
And it should be restricted so that last resorts are the only way for them to happen
Quote:Bad comparison. A pyromaniac has his "urges" because of a chemical imbalance or just being plain ol' wacko. Reproduction is THE driving force of life. Pyromaniacs make up less than one percent of the human population. Every single lifeform on this planet reproduces.
Reproduction has been ingrained into us since the dawn of life itself. Any attempt to restrict that drive will fail. The rhythm of life is a powerful beat.
True, but irresponsible reproduction is probably the driving force behind the majority of social problems. How to best keep teenagers from humping like rabbits is a broad sweeping question and would require broad sweeping changes to rectify the over-sexualization and pornification of popular culture. The problem is that too much immorality has become the norm, things that were once socially unacceptable have become common place, and no one will stand up and say that it's wrong because they don't want to be labeled as anti-progressive, or they are said to be blind to the problem because abstinence doesn't work. When in actuality, abstinence would work, if parents taught their children strict morality from a young age and did their best to shield them from the immoral influences out there.
This ties into the idea of parents being the primary educators of children. People depend on Uncle Sam to teach their children morality and sexual responsibility, in addition to reedin', ritin', and 'rithmatik. And when you look at the US dept. of education's track record, they fail at even the most basic of objectives. Do you really trust your children's upbringing to people who can't even make decent meatloaf?
Quote:The problem most people in America is that where they want someone held responsible for their actions, they want to give little allowance for a person to be responsible in their actions. Sex education, REAL sex education. Contraceptives and awareness of them. More education on STDs and family planning. Give them the ability to be responsible first, then hold them accountable if they aren't responsible.
As stated above all of that is reasonable, but those are the responsibilities of parents, not the US govt. It's true that the majority of parents fail miserably when it comes to properly educating their children, but putting that responsibility on the Dept. of Education is ludicrous to expect that they will succeed or even come close to solving a problem with so many facets.
Quote:The best way to learn is through learning. Teach and give the tools to do something properly and responsibly. THEN if they fail to do that, hold them accountable.
The parents need to carry some of the burden of responsibility. Maybe it would make sense to require some sort of certification before being permitted to conceive. Maybe we should install IUD's in all 12 year old girls and temporarily vasectomize all 12 year old boys until they are old enough to pass an exam or demonstrate their ability to properly raise and provide for a child. Unfortunately, that goes against all of my moral standards and i would never be able to support such a policy.
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