I have been married for 5 years. This is my second marriage. I have to admit I feel I made the mistake of a rebound relationship/marriage. I soon discovered that we have very little in common. Our sex life has completely declined to where it is non existant. She is a very sweet and loving person, but I just can't seem to bring myself to being in love with her. We have been going through counseling for about three months, and I don't feel that much has changed. Even though she wants to spend more time with me, I find myself avoiding her, and spending more time with friends. It's not that we fight, we do not seem to see eye to eye on the simplest of things. I realize that she is different in her views and respect them. We however rarely can watch the same tv show together because we do nto like the same tv shows.
Thru counseling I thought my feelings might be revived for her. Bu ti can't understand why nothing has changed. I find myself with a urge to meet other women, however realize I cannot make the same mistakes I made before. So I restrict my interaction to merely socializing.
Fortunately, we do not have any children, and due to the unstable nature of my feelings I do not want to bring children into an unstable relationship.
It so hard to figure out what i should do. We bought a house last year in which we are both comfotable. I know these comforts are not the foundation for a relationship.
Any insight would be greatly appreciated. Send to
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