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Society and it's role?

 
 
Volunteer
 
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Reply Fri 22 Jun, 2007 04:54 pm
@One Man Clan,
One Man Clan;22553 wrote:
No, libertarians have always believed the same things (except we had to change our name from liberals to conservatives when the socialists took over, and conservatives to libertarians once the religous took over).


Did you observe this transformation?
Volunteer
 
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Reply Fri 22 Jun, 2007 05:01 pm
@Red cv,
These words that I am giving you today are to be in your heart. 7 Repeat them to your children. Talk about them when you sit in your house and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. 8 Bind them as a sign on your hand and let them be a symbol on your forehead. 9 Write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.
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markx15
 
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Reply Fri 22 Jun, 2007 06:10 pm
@Red cv,
If the parents live in a society, the children will be affected by it in one way or the other. It boils down to individual responsability, the parents must show it by being the main guides for the children they bring into the world, and the society must set an example to reenforce the teachings started at home. The first years are important, in which the child only has direct contact with its parents, but so are the rest, in which the child enters society. To say that society is not responsable for the upbringing would only be valid if we learned like madmen during our first years and then closed our ears and yelled la-la-la-la-la for the rest of our lives. One way or the other society will teach you lessons, be them good ones or bad ones, it depends on the society.

P.S. The parents lay the foundation.
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aaronssongs
 
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Reply Sat 23 Jun, 2007 05:24 am
@Red cv,
Red;21576 wrote:
I've noticed a trend these days for parents to blame society when their children are in conflict with the law. How is society to blame for a child who has chosen a path that envolves breaking the law. Where did parental responsiblity go, and who decided it's society's responsibilty. What happened to accountablity and responsibility by parents?

I've also noticed that the Socialist's blather on and on that "It takes a village" to raise a child but they never bothered to ask the rest of society whom don't share their idiology if we want yet another burden place on us by the most tolerant or else in society. To recap; it's society's fault if a child breaks the law but not negligent parents because we are suppose to raise the child not the parent. To me this is just another socialist agenda to excuse the weak, lame and lazy for not being capable parents. To state this openly would offend the politically correct so they use blanket statements that blame society thus ensuring no accountablity to parents who are inept and incompetant. The youth are fed this crap and come out of prison feeling like victims because "Society failed" no it didn't the youth failed and so did his/her parents.

Note to socialist, don't include me in your society I wasn't asked if I wanted the responsibility ergo you can have the mea culpa. It's time society stopped getting blamed for bad parents and out of control children and youth who have never been tought accountablity and the word "Consequence".

What say you people on this forum? Society's fault or socialist doctorine of blame the majority as they pander to a minority group.



Oh, don't get me started....
There was a movie, a while back, where the entire populace was rendered infertile, chemically, and people had to register to have only 1 child, and the gist of the movie was this particular couple lost their child to disease or accident and they "broke the law" of one child to a couple, by conceiving another child.
That sounds legit to me, with certain caveats....render everyone "infertile", and those couples wanting to reproduce, take a mandatory "parent" test...and if you fail, you're s... out of luck. Because, these days, anybody can have children, but only few are real parents, IMHO, and deserving of the privilege.
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aaronssongs
 
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Reply Sat 23 Jun, 2007 05:29 am
@One Man Clan,
One Man Clan;22525 wrote:
I don't believe that parents are the deciding factor.

My grandfather grew up with no parents, he's semi-rich, succesful, and incredibly intelligent.

I believe it's the individual.


Of course, if there is no responsible guardian or authority figure available...but if your teenager commits a crime, and you don't agree that punishment is in order, then you become the responsible party and pay for your child's action, or the lack of your supervision. I believe in holding minor's parents accountable. IMHO
aaronssongs
 
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Reply Sat 23 Jun, 2007 05:32 am
@Reagaknight,
Reagaknight;22541 wrote:
Well, expect that to change. I'm 16 and not fitting your definition.


OMG....that explains everything....you're 16! I've been debating and trying to reason with a child, who knows very little about the world and life's experiences. Lord help me. My bad. You should have forewarned me.
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Reagaknight
 
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Reply Sat 23 Jun, 2007 05:49 am
@Red cv,
Crap, and I was trying to be polite in the Celtic Christianity thread. When you read my post, please take out anything that is not completely critical or offensive. Wasn't it rather obvious after I decided to take the side of someone who calls themself a "Pissed Libertarian?" I'm sure that through publishing a book and selling 600 copies you have gained infinite knowledge of the world, oh wise one.

P.S. Any liberal cannot possible have more than a minimal knowledge of the world and society, and how they work, IMO.
aaronssongs
 
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Reply Sat 23 Jun, 2007 05:51 am
@Red cv,
Red;23024 wrote:
I loathe the analogy it takes a village to raise a child, it's cir logic that comes back to placing the responsiblity onto society. It's socialist dogma to excuse lazy parents from responsibility. No one asked me if I wanted the responsibility of being the metophoric village nor was society as a whole asked if they were willing to accept the responsibility of raising said children.

If a child commits a crime it's the child who is responsible, if he/she has weak, lame and lazy parents they assume some of the blame but ultimatley it's the child who must accept mea culpa (accountability). We have allowed the left or liberal mindset to infect common sense, a parent is responsible for their children and the children are responsible for their behaviors. Peers and society have nothing to do with the issue, if a child has been instilled with a value system that teaches responsibility and accountability that child will assume liability for his/her actions. Those who haven't been raised with the ethos of accountability and responsibility will be tomorrows socialist whom blame SOCIETY, peers groups and anyone else to excuse themselves for their actions.


What? I'm liberal, and leftist...and I completely agree with you...what does being liberal have to do with not having common sense?
I'm from the old school...if I got out of line, I got it every whichaway but left.
Let me mouth off to my mother and I got a bitch slap upside my head..and the thought never entered my mind to be anything but humble and remorseful. And I had never better buck authority at school, church, or any other place...or I'd be sailing out a window. Child abuse? If I had claimed that, she'd be in jail, content as a tick, and I'd be dead.
Some of you people have the craziest ideas about child rearing.
The Bible even says, "Spare the rod, spoil the child".
I see "white children" misbehaving in public, all the time...and the mother saying, "stop that little johnny", or "be good, little suzy"....what they need is a real "ol skool" black mother who doesn't take any crap off of any children....children who should know their place...these days, it's the kids that run the parents...and then when they get into trouble, they throw their hands up, and exclaim they just can't control them, when discipline should have started "at birth"...
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aaronssongs
 
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Reply Sat 23 Jun, 2007 05:56 am
@Volunteer,
Volunteer;23025 wrote:
It takes a village to raise a child if the child's parents refuse to accept their responsibility or if the village has socialist or communist tendencies and refuses to allow the parents to do their job and impart the values of the parents in the children.


What? I don't know what village you all are talking about...but from my standpoint, if the parents are neglectful...the village winds up being the criminal justice system, flawed though it is...which means, the child is usually "lost".
What village are y'all talking about? Cousins? Family and friends? Church?
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aaronssongs
 
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Reply Sat 23 Jun, 2007 06:01 am
@Reagaknight,
Reagaknight;23096 wrote:
Crap, and I was trying to be polite in the Celtic Christianity thread. When you read my post, please take out anything that is not completely critical or offensive. Wasn't it rather obvious after I decided to take the side of someone who calls themself a "Pissed Libertarian?" I'm sure that through publishing a book and selling 600 copies you have gained infinite knowledge of the world, oh wise one.

P.S. Any liberal cannot possible have more than a minimal knowledge of the world and society, and how they work, IMO.


No, I gained my infinite knowledge of the world by existing for 38 years longer than you.

P.S. liberal or conservative or whatever, a 16 year old cannot compete on the level of an adult, even one who only had the benefit of an elementary education...it's called the school of life. You don't know anything...you haven't lived long enough. end of line
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Reagaknight
 
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Reply Sat 23 Jun, 2007 06:18 am
@Red cv,
Okay, then. How about you? How do you, someone with an appallingly huge ego and sense of self importance (which only becomes larger upon learning your opponent is younger than you or has not read 1984) expect to get anywhere on a forum full of realists? There are eight year olds more intelligent than you who are already set for life because of their intelligence. Saying that people under 20 or whatever age are not aloud to have opinions is spurning the lesson of Nineteen Eighty-Four that you seem to otherwise so desperately cling to. I don't care if you're Methuselah, to assume you are more important or know more than me because of age is surely enough to consider putting you on my 'ignore' list. Let me know when you've joined us here on Earth.
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One Man Clan
 
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Reply Sat 23 Jun, 2007 10:43 am
@socalgolfguy,
socalgolfguy;22987 wrote:
Of course you feel that way. You're a "pissed libertarian" remember? The fact is that parents play the most crucial role in their children's development. The first 3 years of their lives impact everything they will do for the rest of their lives. That is when they learn to trust, love and develop a moral foundation, a sense of security and the confidence to grow forward. Their imaginations need to be nourished and explored. They need to be nurtured not ignored. When they are, they thrive and want more. The role of parents in those early years determines what they will become later. Your grandfather sounds like a squared away man. But, he is the exception and not the rule. Any individual without primary guidance is like a rudderless craft in a hurricane.

Speak to him, he'll agree with me.


Really?

He's a rudderless craft in a hurricane?

Apparantly rudderless craft are pretty ideal.

Here's a hint, it's the individual that decides who they become. From the age of twelve forward the individual is able to make decisions on their own.
One Man Clan
 
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Reply Sat 23 Jun, 2007 10:44 am
@Volunteer,
Volunteer;23022 wrote:
That's because they (or their parents against whom they rebell) are rich enough to have computers and a land line or radio link to the internet and a teenager. Being a teenager usually means the person is in rebellion against their parents, their teachers, or society. That means they don't want to have constraints becuase they haven't finished exploring or sowing their wild oats. They don't want any constraints. The Libertarian mind set fits with this rebellion.


No, the anarchist mindset fits with this rebellion.

Libertarianism is purely rational, and lacking emotion entirely.
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One Man Clan
 
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Reply Sat 23 Jun, 2007 10:45 am
@Volunteer,
Volunteer;23030 wrote:
Did you observe this transformation?


No, but I know my history.
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One Man Clan
 
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Reply Sat 23 Jun, 2007 10:46 am
@aaronssongs,
aaronssongs;23092 wrote:
Of course, if there is no responsible guardian or authority figure available...but if your teenager commits a crime, and you don't agree that punishment is in order, then you become the responsible party and pay for your child's action, or the lack of your supervision. I believe in holding minor's parents accountable. IMHO


Yes, parents are responsible for their children.

But regardless, the child is even more responsible, and ultimately they choose who they are.
aaronssongs
 
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Reply Sat 23 Jun, 2007 11:32 am
@One Man Clan,
One Man Clan;23172 wrote:
Really?

He's a rudderless craft in a hurricane?

Apparantly rudderless craft are pretty ideal.

Here's a hint, it's the individual that decides who they become. From the age of twelve forward the individual is able to make decisions on their own.


What? Now you have a Ph.D in Psychology? Some individuals are never able to make their own decisions. Conventional wisdom says that they "should be able to" , but that is not always the case. Sometimes society and circumstances determine who the individual becomes...sometimes people are products of their circumstances.
Drnaline
 
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Reply Sat 23 Jun, 2007 11:34 am
@Red cv,
Way to blame society for one's own responcibility.
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aaronssongs
 
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Reply Sat 23 Jun, 2007 11:35 am
@One Man Clan,
One Man Clan;23178 wrote:
Yes, parents are responsible for their children.

But regardless, the child is even more responsible, and ultimately they choose who they are.


The individual is responsible for his or her own actions, hence, we have juvenile courts...and some children are even tried as adults. Don't know what you mean by "(they) ultimately chose who they are".
One Man Clan
 
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Reply Sat 23 Jun, 2007 12:15 pm
@aaronssongs,
aaronssongs;23218 wrote:
What? Now you have a Ph.D in Psychology? Some individuals are never able to make their own decisions. Conventional wisdom says that they "should be able to" , but that is not always the case. Sometimes society and circumstances determine who the individual becomes...sometimes people are products of their circumstances.


Only weak people are products of their circumstances.

Everyone gets pushed around by their environment. Those of us that aren't weak? We push back.
One Man Clan
 
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Reply Sat 23 Jun, 2007 12:16 pm
@aaronssongs,
aaronssongs;23220 wrote:
The individual is responsible for his or her own actions, hence, we have juvenile courts...and some children are even tried as adults. Don't know what you mean by "(they) ultimately chose who they are".


It means it's their choice.

I'm honest, I see what I can become.

I choose not to become it. I'm way too lazy.
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