@drillersmum,
Hi Drillersmum,
You are, of course, welcome. So are any questions you have too.
As to your question -IMO Coincidence is simply interpreted as - An event or happening that occurs by luck, fortuity or accident, by chance.... The opposite of this is typically defined as - Intended or calculated, designed - God-given, if such is your belief.
And, as far as I know drillersmum, every question has a philosophical side to it.
Please visit more often, join in the fun, and remember - Nobody here can prove anything for sure.
My own opinion on this is - There are no coincidences.
Have a fantastic day, my friend.
Mark...