@housby,
Hi all (concerned),
By the discussion so far, i gather the reason why we humans call ourselves unique.
One of the distinctions is the way we use language. In this case, and what comes out clear is that English language has serious limitations, and therefore the difficulty in understanding the point of views of the other.
While the initial question was to implore the definition of 'Reality', we are unable to define it in acceptable 'terms'. The nature of humans and reality is such that 'Reality' should ever be tossed between empiricists and rationalists, believers and realists, materialists and spiritualists, and across these groups. Therefore, a story is appropriate to understand certain concepts which in the normal is not comprehensible becuase of limitation in language, limitation in thoughts, limitation in understandings, limitations is knowledge.
Suppose a child born in Easter Island is told that the Ocean at large is the Ultimate Reality, and nothing exists beyond that, than that child is bound to limit his/her thinking to explore the ocean and know about it thoroughly. He can define all the material things he finds, in the sea nearby, the living beings on the ocean floor apart from all that is found on the island and the elements with the help of the elders.
It so happens that a strange looking object, which in 'our' world we call it as a packed parcel floats it sway into 'his' world. It urns out that the misplaced, floating parcel is a laptop. He opens it and finds a 'ONed' screen which shows his face through the crystal eye optic lens placed on the screen body. He is stumped beyond his belief. He just cannot make what to say of this 'thing' that shows his face. It woul dnot be wrong to say that h emay think that the laptop is not real. It is a subjective experience. He may think that he is dreaming even in a waking state.
Now, he faces two kind of realities.
1) One that he experiences through his senses and the everyday occurences around him including the materials and spirits he sees and was told about in the forces in the island. In short the sensory and physical phenomenons.
2) The other reality would be the prospect of first naming the object - a product of his subjective experience, naming the phenomenon that created this object, and contemplating which 'forces' have made this mind changing object.
He will not be able to make sense of this other reality unless he is informed by 'his world' that 'another world' exists beyond the ocean. The reality of this 'reality' is very difficult to comprehend. He is so mesmerised, so steeped, so engrossed in his own definitions and world-view - a view which was restricted to the vastness of the oceans and boundary of his habitat. The perceptions (of physical things) and perspectives(of ideas) he harbours in his mind is so embedded in ones psyche that a new object and the idea it represents can easily be rejected as a attribute of evil forces or else, it can be attributed to divine forces. The possibility that he may be fascinated by the object as a matter of fancy irrespective of the causative factors or attributed forces is also there. For him, the object is 'unreal'.
But the mystery of the object needs to be solved. The thinker, or the shaman in that tiny island will have to dwelve on this mysterious object. The object is not merely a perception. Neither it is conceived by the islanders. The concept of the 'Other Reality' has to be explained to that youth before explaining the concept of a 'laptop'.
The 'Other Reality' - that (world) which exists beyond the oceans will have to be analysed with 'T(his) Reality'. He can only make sense of the real world once both the realities are understood. The laptop will no longer be a subjective experience but an objective experience. But this 'making sense of the real world' is not a simple affair. A new language, i.e. a new vocabulary, new definitions, a new concepts have to be explained painstakingly to him to understand concepts like civilisations, cities, technology, communications etc. But it wont be so difficult for him to understand that the ocean has acted as the medium between 'this world reality' and 'that world reality'. The laptop was the stimuli, one can say.
Similarly, the realities of the mind and the realities of the physical phenomenons are corelated, connected and conjuncted by the mechanism of the mind/brain reality. The medium is the body in which the mind/brain resides. All perceptions takes place in the mind. All kinds of perceptions are real. But kinds of phenomenons are also real. It is also true that phenomenons are perceived. Which could only mean that phenomenons are also real. So, there is nothing contradictory in such assertions.
The problem will only arise when once perceived phenomenon does not tally or is not consonant with once perceived reality, and when others object to such subjective phenomenons. Let us suppose that 'a mirage' is like the 'laptop'. If i see a mirage, it is not necessary that the other see the same. But the mind-reality is true to the person experiencing it. How can one dispute that.
The dispute arises when the other person says that there is no 'oasis', but th ereality is just a mental event or perception. The egoistic man will continue to argue about the realness of a 'mirage', which is a mental phenomenon, and not an actual physical phenomenon. In the Easter Island child case, the laptop initially has 'unreal characteristics of a real object. Becuase his mind doesnot accept it. The mind is defintely crucial. For the individual. But, and what is most important is that both the oasis and the laptop exists independent of the perceiving mind.
Now, coming back to the intial problem of the language, it would do well to understand that the Easter Island child has one kind of reality, which i would like to term as 'Lesser Reality' and the causative factor reality of the laptop as the 'Greater Reality'. We need to distinguish the paradigms within which the 'Realities' are to be defined. The dualities of mind and body, thought and processes, islands and continents, primitive and modern, laptops and spears, mirages and oasis, man and woman - all have their own realities. It all depends on which world for which a reality has to be defined. Unfortunately, English does not have words that equals different realities, or terms them seperately. A mental reality and physical reality are not the same realities, although in the final analysis it is The One Reality.
Meaning, ultimately, we are all One. The ultimate Reality, they say.
Mind does matter, but please, so also Matter.