@no1author,
I have developed a simple understanding through my personal experience and struggle over the years. Here it is as best as i can explain
Did god create man in his own image? If so ,what is the image of God?
Well, he's most definitly a creative inteligence.
"You shall know me by my works"
Am i in that image? Yes, I am a creative inteligence
If I am to create something and give it to my friend ,what are my expectations?
That he might find my creation enjoyable.
If he puts it in a box in the closet am I hurt?
Yes
If I make a hunting knife and give it to my friend, and he goes next door and uses it to kill his neighbor goes to prison and spends his life in a box of misery and regret do i think he enjoyed my gift?
No.
Am I happy with him?
No
Do I still love him?
Yes
What are God's expectations of me?
That I enjoy his Gift