@PappasNick,
PappasNick;145698 wrote:Suppose you know that you engaged in a discourse with someone. But you are unaware that this discourse had a profound effect on your interlocutor. You know, of course, you had the discourse (assuming you remember), yet you are unaware of the larger event, the impact on the other. From the other's perspective, this larger event is what happened. If you learn about this impact on the other, you, too, will realize what has happened, what event happened. But not until you are informed. So you both do and do not know what event happened until that point, if such a point ever comes.
I would suppose that from the "others perspective", the larger event is what
also happened, but that does not mean that the "smaller" event (if I can call it that) did not happen. There is a distinction between saying that the larger event happened and saying that only the larger event happened. I do know that the smaller event happened, and I do not know (perhaps) that the larger event happened. That does not mean that, as you wrote, that "I both do and do not know what event happened", since we there are two different events.
"Philosophy is a constant battle against the bewitchment of the intellect by language". Wittgenstein.