My art, cooking, depends on having people to do it for. It fulfills many things: Pays the rent, inspires me, and I meet interesting people. Asherman is right, as usual, as long as I'm working, I get better. Actually asking someone to be your muse may very well be "just trying to get some" as eoe put it.
Blame the Greeks for making muses all female, and guys for picking up on it.