@daustin,
daustin wrote:
Everyone keeps telling me to listen to my heart....
But most time you have to think with your head.
Who is this "everyone" that telling you what to do?
You're the one who has to live your life, not "everyone" else.
You haven't had a 4 year relationship.
You've had a one year relationship, which hasn't worked out, twice.
Unless you are an adult who had spent a significant amount of time with a person, and then, because of something totally unavoidable had to live in different areas of the country, and flew back and forth to see each other on weekends, holidays, etc. you're not having a long distance relationship. Examples of people that might be in a long distance relationship would be if one person is in the military, or prison.
2 adults would not normally not go for 3 years only seeing each other on weekends and holidays as #1, this would cut into their own lives, not giving them much time to do anything else. By this time they would have come to some sort of solution to be much closer, and probably married.
What you have done for 3 years is talk to him on the phone, emails, texts, etc.
Sounds like there's also problems with relations between you and his family as well.
Whoever said it is right, you've already answered your own question.
I will give you one piece of advice....do not get pregnant.