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Sat 1 Nov, 2003 07:45 pm
this is the problem he hasbeen living out of state for a while but he still calls almost every day. he says he loves me but sometimes i don't believe it and sometimes i think he lies about things but i have no real reason to doubt him. he even says eventually he wants to marry me but that he has a fear of commitment. Guys...am i being bullshitted..........be honest.
Not knowning more and not knowing the two of you, I'd have to say follow your instincts.
It's hard to say with so little information.
Fear of commitment is a BS line....if he really wants to marry you, tell him to get some professional help for his commintment issues. Again, there is not enough information here to make a sound judgement regarding whether or not this is a real problem, or BS. Tell us more.
I'm with Cav in saying that a fear of commitment is nonsense.
How often does his visit to get a taste of the honey. I expect it is time for you to tell him to sh-t or get off the pot.