Well, ReX, at least you are exploring the complexities of the issues here. Incidentally, I'm only 33, so I can still remember what it was like to be young. My brain isn't addled that much...yet. I can still break down your post.
Rebellion is the food of youth, and should be sought out. However, if you did not expect to come against the arguments of the big boys, it wouldn't be a rebellion, would it? Cheers.
Politics is by nature, partisan. There is no such thing as 100% right on either side, and there is no way to prove it.
Your friend is misguided and misinformed on this issue, but maybe one day he will learn to read.
"Would there have been someone else who would have done the same?
Yes. Again, maybe less jews, but I don't know how they would have gotten the power then."
Please explain your position here. There have been many despots and dictators throughout history who have persecuted Jews. It did not start with Hitler. Are you referring to the post-WWII decision by the UN to make Israel an official Jewish state? Please tie in the connections here.
I'm not sure about your statement regarding Romans writing history. Many books have been written about the Roman Empire, and it's virtues and flaws. The victors may write immediate history, but history evolves, as society evolves. In your words, forever is a long time.
As for Hitler, sorry, he had no concrete arguments to support what he did. Let's just say that he started off with a good idea, he rebuilt the infrasturcture of Germany, and improved the economy, but ultimately fell victim to his own deranged mind. Had he simply stuck to economics, WWII may never have happened. He was obsessive though, and blamed the Jews for his failure as an artist (read Mein Kampf, it's all there). He was also a firm believer in the occult, also well documented, and a sign of a person who is truly unhinged.
As for the statement "If you want to kill, but can't, you're one of the good guys" that makes no sense. All human beings carry the prehistoric urge to kill once in a while. It is not that we can't, it's that choose not to, because we believe that a higher moral ground (which has nothing to do with god) is the path to follow. That's what elevates us above the animals, and the Hitlers of the world.