@sullyfish6,
Me too sullyfish6 I will be a widow for 2 years on 26th January! I never thought I would be bringing up 2 children on my own and doing all the things I have to do to keep going! I am 46 and now realise that life is too short and try to fit in as much as I can. I have no fear and try dare devil stuff, I don't stop doing things, this is my way of coping and keeping going.
Seed - I have a friend in the army, I helped him at school he is doing really well and am so proud of him. He has been to Afgan.
We never know what is round the corner or what ups or downs we face but you just have to make the best of what we have here and now. As long as it harms none do what you will. keep in touch and keep safe X