This happened to me on the weekend and ... & my initial reaction (which I kept to myself) was that I wasn't sure I'd be comfortable about the idea. Even though I'm very fond of the friend. Then I wondered if I was being rather mean-spirited.
No, you're not mean-spirited. At least no more mean-spirited as I was when I let family members "friend me" on Facebook. I wasn't comfortabe with my worlds colliding either, and still haven't joined the "A2K" group on Facebook because I'm not overly keen on them finding me here.
That said, nothing uncomfortable has happened yet. And I can handle the occasional question like, "who are all those women writing into your Facebook threads?"
So if someone asked you, what would your response be & why?
Just give her the URL, invite her to look around, and give me a holler when you get sick of her. I'll hit on her in the sleaziest way I can; maybe that will chase her off again. (Unless she finds this thread first ....)