@sunny09,
Did he tell her before they became intimate?
If I loved someone, I'd still love them if they got sick - or if they were sick and told me about it. I'd be upset if they'd kept such important information a secret because they were afraid I wouldn't love them anymore because they were sick.
Having said that, I don't know how I'd relate sexually to someone who was infected with AIDS. I'd have to talk to doctors and become very informed about whether/how that's possible without definitely impacting my own health.
But I wouldn't dump the person because I'd still love them. I don't know - it's difficult.
I have a friend who had bowel cancer and had to have a colostomy. He dumped his girlfriend (he told me) because he didn't think it was fair of him to ask her to stay and have sex with someone who had had a colostomy. She knew he had become sick with cancer - but he ended it when he found out about having to have the colostomy instead of putting her in the position of having to be with someone who had that problem.
This was five years ago. He STILL loves her. And she still has no idea why he dumped her (she's with someone else).
Sad, isn't it?